Enough is Enough

I had a long relationship that ended about a year ago. We were together for about 5 years, engaged for 3.5 years. Obviously it was something good or it wouldn’t have lasted for so long. A while back I found out, through a myspace comment, that he completely lied to me, and he cheated. My natural reaction was to text him just to say that – now I know.

He asks me what difference it makes now? Well, to me it makes a huge difference and it does matter! This is why: Our relationship, our engagement, according to him ended because he couldn't take the distance (about a 20min plane ride). Boohoo, I'm so sorry, that must have been really hard for you........ NO, You cheated, but you were too scared to tell me the truth, THAT'S WHY it ended dipshit, and that’s why it matters!

I guess it's easier and it looks better to you, your family and my family to say that it just didn’t work than to admit that you are a cheater huh?

Apparently he also thought it was okay to start a new official relationship before breaking up our engagement because they are apparently celebrating their 1 year anniversary a week before the date we broke it off. How pure!

It’s funny too, that my good friend Linda emailed back and forth with this girl, about a year ago when things were going down. As they were talking back and forth, the new girl said, and I quote "As for me and his ex I came into the picture way after her."

Notice the word "way" indicating a long time after! Either bitch it lying or, again, Maui is, to her! When you are engaged (to be married, remember that!), any decent person would end that relationship before starting another one am I right? Instead, Maui wanted to overlap. CLASSY!

He never tried hard enough to fix it in the first place, before it ended, and even to this day, his attempts to get me back have been absolutely pathetic!One the one hand, he calls me asking casually like it’s no big deal sort of like “hey, you wanna get back together or what?” and on the other hand he’s calling me crying, telling me I'm the best thing he'll ever have. oh I know! Don't you worry, I know. Go cry to someone else, because I really don’t care.

As for recent events, he called me last night, multiple times, at around 3 in the morning. Silly of me to pick up the phone because his words mean absolutely nothing to me. “I miss you… I Love you…. I want to get you back” After I decided that I heard enough he still thought it was appropriate to continue harassing me.....

Seriously?
It is over! Please don't call me! There is nothing that we need to talk about!

And oh, clearly this all happened/happens while he was/is with this new girl.
He wants to have his cake and eat it too, and it absolutely disgusts me!

The point of it all: You think you know someone, but you really have no idea! People's true colors will come out... I just wish I would have known sooner.

Maui Kava, in my eyes you’re just a big scam. You are a liar, so full of shit and not worth anymore of my time! I hope you feel good about yourself!